I wish that my boyfriend wld of taken this class...maybe he cld learn a thing or two about communicating. We learned that men are solution oriented but my boyfriend seems to be more ignore it oriented. When he or i has a problem his motto is to just let it go, stop worrying, everything will be fine, instead of talking it out or trying to fix the issue.
He will avoid an uncomfortable conversation at all costs. Is this common for men or is it just his particular personality? I for one hate avoiding issues, i like to take them head on and get the problem solved and over with. I hate ignoring something when it know something can be done about it. I think that if ppl dont communicate through problems they are only making them worse by leaving them stew.
I think this class is good just to take for life experience not just for a major. I am seriously gonna recommend this class to anyone i know looking for somthing to fill their schedule. If more ppl took this class and actually learned the lessons we go over I think a lot of ppl would be better off.
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yeah i see what you are saying. My relationship is the same way. He always says don't worry about it and things will work themselves out. he also never wants any conflict. If we have a disagreement he completey shuts down and like the other said pulled out his nothing box.
But yeah all of them are the same way i think if they have a passive personality. Good luck.
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