Processes

My sister and I are really close. Growing up she was always the one to give me advice. Now, things are a little different. Her and her boyfriend break up almost every weekend when they are drinking. It is getting a little old and starting to make a bad routine. She comes to me for advice now. I told her to focus on the process of the argument and not the content. I explained everything to her, and she says she understands and it makes complete sense. It has been awhile now, and I haven't had to talk to my sister about this again. She says things are getting better! I feel like a therapist already!!